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Gosh, this really made me stop and think. Thanks, Sue. x

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Apr 18Liked by Sue Cauhape

"My immediate response condemns him.." A behavior we learned in caves, carrying clubs. The decision to fight or flee had to be made quickly, so we learned to make instant judgements - many of which were correct, and many, not. But we survived. Most of us pride ourselves on being non-prejudiced. But as I peruse your list, Sue, I know I still ( and often) make snap judgements in many of those categories -- and I have had my entire long life to free myself of them. A thought provoking post, my friend.

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Thank you, Sharron. I just said that same this basically to E.R. Flynn who also commented on the poem. These little prejudices are indeed how we judge whether or not a person is dangerous. It's deeply ingrained, and I wonder if it's wise to entirely rid ourselves of it. We can get in to trouble if we naively accept people without prejudice. I've had a few disastrous situations arise when I ignored the warning bells going off in my head.

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I like your list of prejudices. It's spot on. It also reads like a Jeopardy question, "Alex, I'll say, Topics used by Insult Comics?"

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It surprises me how judgmental I can be when I look at people in public. It's nuts. Yet people do it to me, too. I guess it's a primitive way of assessing whether not not a stranger is a danger.

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deletedApr 18Liked by Sue Cauhape
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Thank you, CJ.

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